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Elizabeth and Allan Pack
We are Elizabeth and Allan Pack and have been married 8 years. In November 2011 we took that leap of faith and applied to adopt a child from Ethiopia. This blog is all about our journey from start to finish. We patiently waited for 5 years to bring our child home and as of April 2016 we felt God was leading us to withdraw from the program and help another family bring home their child.
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Sunday, September 20, 2015

Updates

I have been without a computer so I haven't been able to update like I wanted.

The yard sale went really well, we set up around 6am but no one really started coming until about 8am and it was pretty steady til about 10:30 and then we packed up and left. Things are different now with a little one along who needs naps and lunch, but we considered it a success. We are so thankful to everyone who came out to support us and for everyone who donated their "junk" to us to sell! :) We were invited to participate in a multi-family fundraiser next month so we look forward to going and selling some more! God continues to provide the money needed to continue forward with the adoption.

We received this e-mail last month, but I wasn't able to post it. I will kind of summarize but have copied it below if you'd like to read it. Basically things are continuing to slow down and becoming harder to adopt in Ethiopia. The PAIR process which was supposed to help speed the process up has actually slowed it down tremendously.  They have offered families to switch programs and move forward to adopt in other countries, we did look into the other countires but for now we will continue to wait in Ethiopia. America World continues to provide and care for the children in Ethiopia who are in need but it is becoming expensive with the wait times continuing to increase and they need help. Please check out www.awaa.org if you'd like to donate to them.

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Dear Allan & Elizabeth,
Thank you for your continued support of America World Adoption’s Ethiopia adoption program. As you may be aware, the environment of international adoption from Ethiopia has dramatically changed in the last several years and is continually changing. The U.S. Department of State’s Office of Children’s Issues publishes the adoption statistics each year and we continue to see a sharp decline in the number of international adoptions completed around the world each year, as well as in Ethiopia.  Yet the number or orphaned and vulnerable children in the world continues to increase each year.  America World is committed to all of our international adoption programs, especially our successful Ethiopia adoption program.  However, to be fully transparent, we continue to experience increased difficulties working in Ethiopia. 

Many agencies have closed their Ethiopia programs for financial reasons and the impact of long delays in the paperwork and referral processes.  We were deeply saddened to hear that All God’s Children closed their Ethiopia program last week.  The cost of supporting our partner orphanages, maintaining two transition homes in Ethiopia and providing quality care for the children in our care, has become more and more difficult to provide. The amount of time it takes to process adoptions in Ethiopia, including the amount of additional paperwork that is required has increased significantly to the detriment of the children and families.  This increase also leads to longer timelines for adoptions to be finalized thereby increasing the timeline to care for children in our transitional home while they wait for their adoption to be finalized.  Amidst the increased timelines and expenses in adoptions, the time and investment needed to maintain positive partnerships with the orphanages in Ethiopia and the Ethiopian government has increased as well.  The PAIR (Pre-Adoption Immigration Review process that was implemented on September 1, 2013 to be an addition verification to confirm children are truly in need of being adopted) has intensified the amount of time and paperwork involved in processing adoptions from Ethiopia.  This process requires that even the most common clerical mistakes made by regional offices and remote locations of government agencies be corrected each and every time.  This is an extensive process as it relates to time, cost, paperwork and political challenges.  Many of these regional offices and remote government agencies do not share the same sense of urgency and need as the agencies, families and children affected by international adoption. America World is committed to ethical and transparent work in Ethiopia. 

Currently, America World spends roughly $1.2 million per year on our in-country operating expenses to run our Ethiopia adoption program.  With the increased wait times of additional years to the slowdown in the number of referrals issued each month, it is becoming more and more challenging for us to maintain our program in Ethiopia at the level at which we are comfortable.  We come to you, with the intent of being fully transparent  with the challenges that we are facing and our commitment to serve the children in Ethiopia.  Our ultimate goal is to not increase the already high costs for adoptive families in our Ethiopia program, but we have come to a time that we need to examine how we will continue to keep transition homes open, continue to serve the families in our program by maintaining orphanage partnerships and place children into families. Most importantly, we are committed to serving as many children as possible in Ethiopia that are in need of a forever home. 

Our heart’s desire is to keep adoptions from ET as financially reasonable as possible for adoptive families that have responded to the call to adopt. Therefore, we come to you to ask if you would be willing to invest in our Ethiopia program and support us fundraise in our work in Ethiopia.  Our support is an investment in these precious vulnerable children and the families that open their hearts and their homes to the “least of these”. Our financial need is significant and in order to continue to run our in-country program in Ethiopia we have set a goal to raise $250,000 by September 30th, 2015.  America World will continue to be diligent to cut where ever possible within our Ethiopia program while still maintaining high standards of work and care.  Your support will allow us to continue in this critical work.

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Please join us in praying for America World, their finances and their heart to love on the children until they can be placed in their forever homes,  for the government to speed up the process and for these precious children who so desperately want and need to come home! We know God is in control and He has great plans!

 
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Saturday, August 1, 2015

Update/Yard sale

I know it's been far too long since I've updated everyone! Things stay pretty busy around here working full time and spending my free time playing and loving on our adventurous 9.5 month old. :)

Yes, we are still in the waiting stage of our adoption. But, due to a misunderstanding, our home study wasn't updated and so therefore our fingerprints were not updated. We are still on the list and moving up the list but since our documents have expired if a child became available right now we wouldn't be eligible to adopt them. At first we were really upset that this had happened but after hearing from our case worker that everything was still ok, we think this is best until closer to time. The estimated wait time is 3-4 years from our DTE (Dossier to Ethiopia) which is 3/22/13, so we still have a while to wait and this will also save money to pay for other documents when the time comes. :)

We are excited to announce we are having our first 2015 Adoption Fundraiser coming up this Saturday, August 8th!! We are excited to see what God has planned for it. A friend of ours is letting us use her yard since she lives in town where more people are likely to see it. As always, our friends have been so generous in donating items for us to sell, we really wouldn't be where we are today if it wasn't for all their love and support.





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Monday, March 16, 2015

Long time no blog

It's been a while since I have been able to write an update. We have been super busy and for a while we had no internet.

    First of all, YES we are still in the process of adopting! We are still in the waiting stage and have not received any updates lately.  Allan has completed his physical and I have mine next week for the home study and then we start updating our other documents in June. We found out that last year Allan was misdiagnosed and he does have Tuberculous so he will be taking medication for 9 months! We are unsure how this news will affect our home study.
    We have finally moved into our 3 bedroom home! We are so glad to finally be in and this will help us with the home study because our child in Ethiopia has to have a room of their own.
     Well, we have officially given up on that puzzle we were working on for the adoption. We are going to start looking for a different one and transfer all the names over to the new puzzle. Apparently, we picked a REALLY hard puzzle, we had a lady who does puzzle all the time give it a try and she couldn't even do it! It's a disappointment but we will just move on and try a different one!
     We do not have any fundraisers lined up at the moment, but we are looking at doing another Online Auction in the coming months.
    Hopefully I can get back into updating the blog more often now that we are settling into our new home! Please join us in prayer for our little one and for all the children waiting on their forever families.

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